25 Comments
HC
I’ve been both those “listeners” …. I’m learning :)
Maybe we just want to know we are not alone in this?
V
Still not as bad as the "wait until" horde... "Oh, you think it's bad NOW? Wait until they [enter the terrible twos / become teena...
V
We don't always want solutions, we just want to vent the problems :)
J
Shared burdens ✨️💖✨️
I am slowly learning that a good question to ask is “Are you looking to vent Or looking for solutions?”
Even when they say they want solutions, they don’t want them from us. They will find it themselves
B
Sometimes, you read something and it feels good cause it valids your beliefs and behaviours... And sometimes, it challenges what y...
P
Ugh. Mine too.
I'm autistic, so I offer solutions because that's how I empathize. I've been trying to ask first: Sword or Blanket? Sword is solut...
T
Perhaps if you all tried being the adult parent where nonsense will not be tolerated, instead of softly trying to win their approv...
GU


